Wounds & Disconnection from Self
Wounds Through my work as a psychotherapist, I have seen the wounds that women experience and how those wounds affect their parenting. My own wounds affected my parenting. This truth motivated me to become a coach to wounded mothers. I want to help women heal. I [...]
Grieve the Life You Didn’t Have
Grieve the Life My life has not turned out the exactly the way I thought it would. How about yours? I never thought about grieving the life I didn’t have because it felt like I was dishonoring the life I do have or feeling sorry for [...]
My Grieving Experience
What are some of the common reasons we find ourselves grieving? The loss of a loved one is the number one cause of grief. The loss of a home or job are significant losses too. People also grieve limitations due to mental and physical issues. These [...]
The Stories You Tell
Who Are You?The stories you tell yourself create your reality. The three types of stories told are the stories we tell ourselves about ourselves, the stories we tell ourselves about others, and the stories we tell others about ourselves. These stories create multiple versions of yourself [...]
Wounds & Parts of You
Wounds and Parts of You Emotional wounds and parts are connected. Women are wounded in a myriad of ways. From emotional or mental abuse as a child, growing up in a home where name-calling, put-downs and neglect were the norm. Being parentified by taking care [...]
9 Mothering Styles
How were you mothered? It’s important because the mothering you received impacted the mother you became. Now, of course, many other things impact mothering. However, a young girl is significantly influenced by the relationship she has with her mother. Below are nine mothering styles and [...]
I am a healed wounded mother
I am a healed wounded mother who is committed to the healing of other mothers. My motivation is to get women talking about things we usually keep to ourselves out of embarrassment, shame or feeling that no one could possibly understand what we’re going through. I [...]
5 Qualities of the Wounded Mother
https://youtu.be/RG93u-brENY Hi. I'm Tamala Floyd with Tamala Floyd Life Coaching, and today I'd like to talk to you about the five qualities of a wounded mother. The first quality is that the wounded mother has unhealed pains from her past. These wounds more than likely originated [...]
5 Reasons Why Adult Children Estrange From Their Parents
SOURCE: Kim Bryan For most people, it's unimaginable for a grown man or woman to choose to stop all contact with their parents. The people who provided food, clothes, and shelter, attended dance recitals, volunteered at school, or cheered from the bleachers during every Friday night's football [...]
Why Your Estranged Child Doesn’t Want to Reconcile
Source: Tina Gilbertson LPC, BC-TMH Attribution theory explains their reluctance. Here’s what you can do about it. When your adult son or daughter won’t talk to you, you might wonder why they can’t be more forgiving. Sure, you weren’t always the perfect parent, but who is? You did everything [...]
